I just found out that I’m pregnant. I’m only a few weeks along. Can I still start an adoption plan?
Many women contact us for more information as soon as they discover they are pregnant. The surprise, fear, shock… of an unplanned pregnancy can stir up a wide array of feelings; especially anxiety and uncertainty. Your initial reaction might be, I don’t want a baby or I don’t want to parent. And you immediately begin researching options. Choosing adoption early in pregnancy is an option.
Even though you have many months of pregnancy ahead of you, it’s never too early to reach out to an adoption agency. Before 20 weeks, the focus will be on discussing your feelings about the pregnancy, identifying your support system, and establishing medical/prenatal care. Financial support will come after 20 weeks and/or after matching with an adoptive family.
As you get closer to your due date, you’ll revisit your reasons for considering adoption and, if you still think it’s the best choice, begin making your adoption plan.
Adoption Financial Support
In most states, Arizona included, there is financial assistance for adoption-related expenses for birth parents. Adoption related expenses might include:
- Adoption agency expenses
- Legal expenses
- Counseling
- Prenatal care and hospital expenses
- Living expenses
Unplanned pregnancy, what do I do?
An unplanned pregnancy can be a challenging and stressful experience, especially if you are not ready to start a family. It can catch you off guard, and leave you feeling lost, confused, and unsure of what to do next. However, it is essential to take a step back, assess your situation, and make an informed decision that aligns with your values, life goals, and emotional well-being. Here are some options to consider if you find yourself facing an unexpected pregnancy:
1. Keep the baby:
If you feel emotionally and financially ready to have a child, you can choose to keep the baby and start a family. This option requires careful planning and preparation, such as finding a healthcare provider, creating a support system, and making necessary lifestyle changes. It is a life-long commitment that will bring joy and fulfillment but also requires significant responsibilities.
2. Adoption:
Adoption is another option that some women opt for when faced with an unplanned pregnancy. It allows you to give the child a chance to grow up in a loving and stable family while you can continue with your life plans. The process of adoption can be overwhelming. Working with a licensed Arizona adoption agency can help you make an informed decision and provide you with the support you deserve.
3. Terminate the pregnancy:
Abortion is a legal option that some women consider when faced with an unplanned pregnancy. It is a personal choice that can be challenging and emotionally distressing, but it is essential to get the necessary information and counseling to understand the procedure and its implications fully. In some states, there may be legal restrictions, so it is crucial to research local laws and consult a healthcare provider to know your options.
Many women choose adoption because they want to provide their baby with the best life possible, but don't feel like they are in a position to do themselves. Maybe you are not ready to be a parent, or maybe you don't have the resources or support system you need to raise a child. Whatever your reason for considering adoption, it's important to know that you are not alone and that there are people who can help you make the best decision for you and your baby.
When Can You “Give a Child Up” for Adoption?
I’m 3 weeks pregnant and don’t want the baby
If you’ve recently discovered that you’re pregnant and not ready to parent, you have options. Adoption Choices of Arizona is here to help you understand your options in order to make the best decision for yourself and your baby.
When you’re three weeks pregnant, you have plenty of time to begin the adoption process. At this stage of your pregnancy, you can begin thinking about an adoption plan and working through your questions and emotions with an adoption agency. The adoption process varies depending on your situation, but, in general, you can expect the process to consist of five steps:
- Step 1: Contact an adoption agency to connect with a birth parent specialist.
- Step 2: Work with your birth parent specialist to create an adoption plan.
- Step 3: Choose the perfect family for your baby.
- Step 4: Receive adoption financial assistance and support.
- Step 5: Complete the adoption placement.
Early Pregnancy Adoption Questions
Many pregnant women who are considering adoption in Arizona have a lot of questions, for example:
- Is adoption free?
- Can I get help with rent, food, clothing and other living assistance in Arizona if I make an adoption plan?
- What about the baby’s father?
- Can I pick the adoptive family?
- As a birth parent, can I revoke their consent (change my mind) to place my baby for adoption in Arizona?
- When is an adoption consent (signed) for adoption in Arizona?
- Do birth fathers have rights in the adoption process in Arizona?
We are available to answer all your questions and provide the support you deserve!